Monday, November 21, 2016

Goa Diaries, February 2012, Part 2: Valentine's, Tattoos and Other Tales



Amchem Goa

A boat ride in the Aguada bay

The two of us gifted ourselves our first, and so far the only, tattoos on Valentine's in 2012. Where else could've we got it at other than our family-favourite and oft-frequented destination: Goa. This was also our first stay in Cavala Resort at Baga and also the first time that we drove to Goa in our Ford Figo. Cavala is a charming little hotel about 400 metres from Britto's restaurant in Baga. The room we got was a comfortable, standard AC room at ground level. The resort's swimming pool and poolside bar are located across the road in the other plot that belongs to the resort. Later in October, we went back to Cavala without our daughter. I might write about that trip - which ended in disaster because of things that happened on this trip - in another post.

The inn section of Cavala

Get Over It

Of the 430-odd kilometres from Kothrud, Pune to Baga, the stretch of National Highway till Nipani is a fantastic, and sleep-inducing, national highway. At Nipani, you turn right and climb through hills, forests, and sugarcane fields on the Ajara-Amboli stretch, all the way to Sawantwadi on the Mumbai-Goa highway, about ten kilometres before the Goa state border. Daughter dearest insisted that the CD of her favourite songs should get maximum playtime, which it did. It also gave Wife and me time to talk and mull over things, a lot of them. Besides the three of us, there was, metaphorically speaking, a fourth traveller, and this person increasingly became the reason for the restiveness that occupied our minds and cast a pall of gloom on what would've otherwise been a pleasant and memorable trip. Well, a "memorable" trip this certainly was! 

Just after getting the tattoo
To draw her out of the gloom, I narrated the story of the novel - every painstaking detail about the characters and who from the movie industry I imagined for which character - I intended to write. A year and four months later, I even completed the first draft, then titled 'Feast of the Kings'. 

'So not you,' she said about the story, involving two female protagonists. 'I think you should write fantasy or historical fiction. At least, fiction involving espionage and war. Drama in contemporary settings, I personally think, is not typical of you.' 

The objective, however, to keep our minds off that fourth person we didn't want to think of. For the rest of the drive, the narration and discussion worked. But the distraction was only transient 

Heartache Tonight

The mobile phone rang several times that evening, eventually leading to an altercation between Wife and me, after we reached Goa. Four calls from Mumbai International Airport the first evening, then a call from Frankfurt Airport the next morning, and once again, from Chicago that evening with a Valentine's greeting in advance.

'And wish her a happy birthday on my behalf,' she said, referring to Wife as "her" as always. It was always "her" or "she", never the name. 'Her birthday is on Valentine's day, isn't it? Wow, nice!'

A battery of text messages followed, which bespoke of despair and heartache. Not a single one indicated any joy about being in the USA or with her husband, whom she was meeting after many months. And why was I so affected by her going away? I'd hugged and congratulated her after she had joyously returned from the US Consulate with a confirmed visa in her passport. So what was the aching in the heart, in both our hearts, I wondered.

Daughter at the poolside bar

Daughter's favourite spot in a resort: The pool

'Isn't she going to the US to join her husband?' the wife asked, infuriated, ignoring the birthday wish. 'Shouldn't she be happy to be joining him, that too in the USA for god's sake!'

Yes, she should've been, and that inexplicable despair was my dilemma as well. Wife and I sulked and didn't talk for the most part of the next morning, after which we eventually made peace over cocktails and vodka, and went to Britto's for lunch. There, we found a tattoo studio with photographs of celebrities and sportsmen getting themselves tattooed in the studio. So we got our tattoos done over there: Wife, a vine in an S shape with two colourful butterflies; and I, the mantra "Om Mani Padme Hum" in Tibetan script.

The view of the beach from Britto's

By evening, the melancholy between us dissipated and we decided to focus only on the three of us and the purpose of this trip. As the sun sank into the Arabian see, the lights and reggae music emanated from the beach shacks. The tables and cane chairs were laid out on the beaches with Chinese lanterns hoisted along the makeshift pathway to these open-to-sky-and-sea lounging area. We sat at the table of one of the shacks and ordered our family-favourites: Calamari in butter garlic sauce, french fries, chicken wings, and Budweisers (Mango juice for the princess).




Ain't No Sunshine When She's Gone

Another highlight of this trip, and subsequent ones, were the karaoke sessions at St. Anthony's. There were quite a few good singers: a Mangalorean Catholic choir singer with lovely long hair and a mesmerizing voice; a chap called Doug who stressed that he was from Wales, not England, all the while transfixed on Wifey Dearest, who returned his attention. I managed a decent rendition of "Time of your Life" by Greenday and also tried, the Bill Withers classic, Ain't No Sunshine. I screwed up on the "I know, I know..." segment and also earned the wife's scorn - not for screwing up but for singing such a pertinent number.

The beers and cocktails, however, allayed the tension between us. Also, the "dance-breaks" in between the karaoke sessions and the flirtatious glances thrown around helped. Wife found an admirer in Doug, who dedicated a karaoke number to her and one for our daughter even! I think Wife and he also danced. Meanwhile, there was this rather pretty Punjabi woman with her husband, with whom I exchanged furtive glances. Later, Wife said that she clapped the loudest after I sang "Crazy Little Thing Called Love", and she also put up a slow, sinuous, rather seductive hip-sway in front of me when the Indipop number "Amplifier" blared on the music system.


Grilled lobster

Eventually, Valentine's Day - also Wife's birthday - went off well. We celebrated with a seafood platter and a lobster for lunch, and Wife's favourite Blueberry Cheesecake. On Valentine's night, a band performed "live" in Cavala, so there was more dancing and drinking, which further cleared the air between us. I stopped reading messages on the phone and ignored all calls, even a couple from my parents. We drove back to Pune on the 15th in peace, promising ourselves another trip soon.

At the end of the trip before we began the drive back to Pune



Saturday, November 5, 2016

Kanha Diaries Part 3.2: Getting There for the First Time


A wise man called Ralph Waldo Emerson said "Life is a journey, not a destination." In the same breath, another wise poet called Javed Akhtar wrote, "Yuhi chala chal rahi, jeevan gaadi hai samay paiyya" :)

Not that I'm looking for justification to describe my journey into unknown lands. Technically, this was my second trip to Madhya Pradesh. Earlier, after our SSC exams, our mother had packed us boys off on vacation to Badnavar, Indore and Ujjain in western MP. I will write a separate post about that trip.

One of the forest tracts in Kanha national park

From Mumbai to Jabalpur by train

The man who gradually slid his scrawny backside into my seat offered me a paper packet of groundnuts boiled in brine. Considering that I’d allowed him to squeeze into my seat, it was a kind token of gratitude, but I was unsure. I’d heard nightmarish stories train travellers being drugged to sleep and the miscreants then making off with their belongings. Hence I politely declined and returned to my novel. He chuckled and popped a few groundnuts into his mouth. He showed me how he chewed and ingested them, then smiled and offered the groundnuts once again, satisfied that he had proved to me that they weren’t laced. His affability made me ease my guard and I took some groundnuts from his packet.

‘We’ve got the whole day to spend, sahib,’ he said, still grinning and masticating at the same time. ‘You will get bored reading that book all day long. Why not eat and drink and chat a little? Good ways to pass time.’

I concurred and put my novel into my backpack. Fishing out a packet of Parle G biscuits, I offered him just like he had done his groundnuts. For some reason, he was amused but he took two biscuits. A chai vendor appeared, just in time, and I bought two chais for both of us.

‘Is it true that as the train goes north, people with ordinary, unreserved seat tickets get into these reserved compartments as well?’

The man stopped dipping his biscuit in his tea.

‘Why sahib, are you uncomfortable right now? Should I get up?’ he asked me and looked about. I let out a sheepish chuckle and quickly told him that I didn’t mean to ask him to leave. That was another horror story I’d heard about northbound trains. As the train reached the northern states, which people impolitely labelled "the cowbelt", anybody who fancied a trip on the train got into any compartment regardless of whether they were for travelers who had confirmed, reserved seats. Some of them don’t even buy regular or ordinary tickets! If a passenger protested, the chaps would call his accomplices and they’d not hesitate to rough up the protesting passenger.

‘No no sahib,’ the man shook his head vigorously and said. ‘By the way, how far are you going?’
‘Jabalpur.’
‘Ah, then you have nothing to worry! Jabalpur will come early morning tomorrow. All that madness happens only after the train reaches UP. You relax, sahib. Enjoy the tea!’

He then went on to tell me about how the train schedule and everything else goes haywire once the train reaches Allahabad. After that, nobody knows when it will crawl out and reach Gorakhpur.

‘Are you from Madhya Pradesh (MP)?’ he asked. I told him that I wasn’t and that I was travelling to a national park.
‘Why? Are you a forest officer?’
I’ve often wished that I was one but I told him that I wasn’t.
‘Jabalpur is not your native place?’

I shook my head and the man frowned and shrugged his shoulders, even scratched his head a little. He could not understand why someone would travel to a jungle in Central India all alone when he does not even belong to that part of the country. Perhaps Khajuraho or even the Marble Rocks or Bhedaghat in Jabalpur would have made sense because they are popular tourist destinations.  I asked him where he was going. To his hometown near Azamgarh, he said. It was harvest time. He worked in Mumbai as a security personnel and had taken leave for almost a month to go home.
Sunrise at Kanha national park. Photo courtesy: Ankur Nagar
‘I’m not sure my job will still be there when I return,’ he said and shrugged once again. Another north Indian chap who had got into the train at Kalyan and until then was struggling to put a folded pram somewhere finally found some space under the seat where he could tuck the pram away. He heaved and plopped into his seat. The man sitting next to me patted his shoulders and offered him my biscuits. Two other men sitting across us joined in and soon, they got talking among themselves and I was left alone. I’m sure they had a lot in common to talk about and mull over. I was the alien in that section of the Sleeper Class compartment, the odd city-bred with airs of conceitedness and preconceived notions. Even at the time of boarding the train at Kurla Terminus, I was apprehensive about the trip, about travelling to unfamiliar lands with complete strangers. My worries were exacerbated by the sight of policemen whacking with their cane sticks and herding poor travellers into the General Class bogies. Where was I going, I could not stop wondering. But three hours into the journey, I realised that these were simple folk, friendly and accommodating, quite unlike the prejudiced advisories I got in the city.

Even their conversations were strange. They inquired about the harvest and the last season’s rain, about tractors and tractor rentals, motors and pumps, panchayat matters, dealings with extended family members, and other such bizarre things that we city folk know nothing about. Every now and then, they turned to me and roped me into their conversation. The pram, for instance, was for his newborn, the man with mustard-oil laden, neatly combed hair said. It was a son, his second-born, and he was going to see him for the first time. The man sitting next to me was trying to explain to the rest of his audience why renting a tractor made more sense than owning one. 
‘Am I right or not, sahib?’ he asked me. I returned his smile and shrug.

From Jabalpur to Kanha by bus

The journey was peaceful and promptly at 4 am, the train reached Jabalpur. I knew I had threee hours to kill and so I went into the waiting room, put my rucksack and backpack down, and sat in a vacant chair between two sleeping men, wrapped in blankets. The sun hadn’t risen and it was quite chilly, but in the waiting room, it was relatively warmer. I had a nice jacket, a brown one that my father used for a very long time, and a sweater inside, but I made a mental note to buy myself gloves and a skull cap if possible. 

There were two basic “Indian style” loos and a Western Commode one, and a long kitchen-sink-like wash basin attached to the waiting room. Inside the loo, high up near the ceiling, there was an ancient, iron cistern from which water constantly dripped into a Dalda tin, which also served as a bathroom mug. A piece of advice here for budget travellers, especially women: In most of India, you can forget hygiene. Toilets are filthy and nonexistent in some places. That’s why you won’t find many women backpacking travelers in India, except in places like Goa or Rajasthan. But then again, they aren’t “economy” travellers.

As dawn broke forth, I had chai at the railway stall and stepped out of the Jabalpur station into the frigid outdoors. The jacket and sweater were adequate but my hands and earlobes froze, and my nose was runny. For a man who was born and raised by the coast who had not seen anything less than 13 degrees C in his life, this cold was intimidating. I dreaded to think what the nights were like in these parts, that too inside the jungle!
A cycle-rickshaw man asked for Rs. 40 to ferry me to the bus station. Just when I was about to refuse the offer – he was a wiry old man; the thought of him having to lug me in his rickshaw made me take pity on him – he brought the price down to Rs. 25. He said that the bus stop was a good two-kilometre walk, not a good prospect for someone like me who was unused to the cold. I got in and in ten minutes he ferried me to the bus stop.

I got a window seat for Rs. 85 in a tin-pot of a government-run bus to Kanha.  The bus left promptly at 7 am as the orange glow of the rising sun got stronger. Jabalpur is a pretty, quaint little cantonment town with Raj-era buildings, schools and colleges, garrison buildings, and military establishments. It is rumoured that Jabalpur sits on top of a vast, underground ammunition warehouse, but it might just be folklore. What is true, however, is that Jabalpur is home to the Shaktiman Truck Factory, which supplies trucks and other vehicles to the Indian Army.  Even before it exited the town, our bus was packed with a diverse mix of passengers. At various points on the 165-kms journey to Kanha, I had different varieties of people sitting next to me: a woman with a basket full of chickens, a hermit with matt-locked hair and a long beard and moustache, and finally a thin road-works contractor from Narsingpur, he said. He had to travel to someplace called Nainpur and had earlier planned to take the 5 AM narrow gauge train from Jabalpur, but had missed his train.

After Barela and Dhanwahi, the bus stopped for a tea and pee break at a village called Narayangaon or Narayanpur (I can’t remember now). There, I learned another thing about Madhya Pradesh: The people here loved fried foods. They began their day with an assortment of fries – samosa, bhajjiya, farsan – but I settled for a traditional MP jalebi-poha, and I didn’t regret the choice! For only Rs. 10, I got a plate full of delicious yellow jalebis with tiny strands of sugarcane still embedded in them. Those were the juiciest jalebis I’ve ever had with poha. After the stop, the bus hurtled through pristine forested hills to Mandla and halted over there for about half an hour.

Most of the passengers got off here, leaving only the contractor and a few others behind. The conductor told me that I could go eat something if I wanted, because the bus would halt here for a while. So I got off and stretched my limbs, and then telephoned home to tell my parents that I was doing all right. A man got into the bus and asked me whether I had found accommodation already in Kanha National Park. I told him that I’d booked a bed for myself in the state-run MP Tourism dormitory for Rs. 350, which included vegetarian meals.

‘But sahib, that’s inside the jungle!’ he said, looking worried.
That was the point, I told him.
‘But you don’t get anything inside the jungle, sahib. You’ll get bored!’ He gave me a visiting card which read “Motel Chandan-Khatia Gate.”
‘This is budget hotel sahib. Very nice, very clean, top-class room. Also, you’ll find lots of eateries around the motel because it is just outside Khatia gate. That’s the first entrance to the national park.’
I assured him that I’ll keep Motel Chandan in mind for my next trip and even tell my friends about it. Eventually, the driver and conductor returned and we drove off from Mandla. 

The contractor sat next to me now, and with folded hands, offered prayers as we crossed a river, I think a tributary of the Narmada.

‘That is Mandla fort, sir,’ he said, pointing to a black-rock structure atop a hillock. ‘It was a fort of the Gonds.’

From Mandla, most of the landscape was flat and full of farmlands, dotted with haystacks. There were no woods for as far as my eyes could see. After a village called Bamhani, a fork appeared in the road. The left one went to Kanha National Park, indicated by large signboards all over, and the right one went to someplace called Chiraidongri. The bus took the right fork.

I panicked and sprang out of my seat when the conductor turned around and chuckled.
‘Relax,’ he said. ‘This bus will go to Chiraidongri and then turn towards Kanha.’
‘Remember I told you I missed my train?’ the contractor said. ‘Well, I’ll get off at Chiraidongri railway station and find another bus from there to Nainpur. My train must’ve gone already.’

The tiny Chiraidongri railway station appeared out of nowhere. The contractor bid goodbye and got off, and the bus turned left towards Kanha. There was still no sight of forests and I began to worry. Vast farmlands and tribal hamlets with their colourful mud huts kept coming, but no jungle in sight. Finally, the bus rattled across the Baihar river, no wider than a jungle stream, and the first grove of sal trees appeared on the other bank. The bus passed through another village called Mocha, which I’d seen in a map in Moulton and Hulsey’s book on Kanha. I also saw the signboards pointing to Kipling Camp and Tuli resorts. Finally, as the excitement built up, Khatia Gate appeared in front of the bus.

In Kisli, the road leading from the dormitory or Tourist Hostel (see signboard)
to Khatia Gate, 3.5 kilometres outside the core forest.

‘You have a confirmed booking inside, don’t you?’ the conductor asked. I showed him the confirmation slip.

‘Okay. Sir, this is buffer zone of Kanha national park. The dormitory and Baghira log huts, both run by government, is 3.5 kilometres inside the core zone of the park. Be careful sir, especially at night. Don’t loiter about in the forest.’

I smiled and glanced out the window at the forest of sal trees. A herd of chital or spotted deer was foraging nearby. Langurs or monkeys scampered about. What the well-meaning conductor didn't know was that I, or the Mowgli inside me, was, for the first time in his life, coming home.

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